The month of November.
It brings with it so many wonderful things!
Cooler temperatures. Harvest time. Hunting season. Beautiful colors. Brilliant moons. Shrimp and grits for Thanksgiving! Why have turkey when you can have shrimp? And for my family, November brings times of tradition. Spending time with family and friends.
A bounty of blessings waiting to be seized when we stop and take the time, make the time, to keep special traditions and enjoy God’s blessings!
The phone buzzed and I looked down. A message from a sweet cousin whose mother taught me the importance of holding family near, including everyone and always making time for others. She taught me that by including me. You see my cousin’s mother was my Great-Aunt. But she treated me like a grand-daughter. Always including me in celebrations, special events, family gatherings. And she then included my husband, my children and now, even after her passing away, I and my family are included in special times and gatherings. Now back to that phone buzzing!
The phone buzzed and I looked at it, wondering! How in the world did I miss that on my calendar? The family stew is two weekends away! Well, it wasn’t on my calendar, that is how it was overlooked! I’m scrambling. I am the one in charge of letting my side of the family know when to attend! YIKES! Quickly I make room in the calendar and started calling.
This is not to be missed.
Time with family is important.
And since my children were little the family stew time has been special.
The early morning potato peeling. The fire being poked. The pot being stirred. The children running and playing. The family visiting. The smell. The taste. The blessings.
“From his abundance we have all received one gracious blessing after another.” John 1:16
November. It can be many things. For me and my family it is a time of making time for others.
Making time for family, friends, old and new.
Traditions. Memories. Blessings.
November. Your November may not look like mine. There may not be family. There may not be friends. There may be loneliness, emptiness, grief. But friends, there are blessings. Because there is One that came to be your family. There is One that takes the solitary and places them into family. His name is Jesus.
He is why my Novembers contain bountiful blessings. You see I once was a broken hearted little eight year old girl who lost a treasured granny and her traditional family all at the same time. Heartbroken. Angry. Lost. God was there, and Jesus was loving. It took me many years to understand that coming through difficulties does not have to leave us destitute! It can leave us stronger! For when we are weak, we are strong! (2 Cor. 12:10)
“God places the lonely in families; he sets the prisoners free and gives them joy. But he makes the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land.” Psalm 68:6
Read that again. And again. You are not alone. You are family to Christ. You are free in Him. There is joy freely given! Surrender friend.
November. Gratefulness. Blessings.
- Give thanks to the One who has all the time for you! That is His blessing to you!
- Remember the One who is turning the leaves bright orange this November. That is His tradition; his gift to you!
- Observe the One who is lighting the moon, bright and amazing, in the night sky. That is His love shining bright for you!
- Accept the One who adopts you into His family be accepting His son, Jesus. That is His priceless treasure to you!
- Make time to treasure Him back. Make time to be grateful, to sing praise!
Allow me to leave you with this sweet photo and words from a special friend, Jana Kennedy-Spicer with Sweet To The Soul.
And friends, because you are His family and I am His family…we are family!